Sex and Relationships

30 Apr Election 2016: 7 ways to avoid conflict in your relationship

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I've been on this planet for a while, and this is by far the most emotionally charged election cycle I've seen in my life time. In the following article by Stephanie Booth for CafeMom.com's The Stir, I set forth 7 ways to keep the conflict...

26 Apr Passive Agressive Behavior: How to manage it in your relationship

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In this article by Stephanie Booth for Cafemom.com's The Stir, Dr. Paul explains the dynamics of passive aggressive behavior and how to manage it in your relationship. The full article can be found below: You're annoyed at your partner so you accidentally "forget" to tell him...

08 Apr Sexless Marriage: How much do you need to be happy?

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Many couples suffer from "sexless marriages." Over time the stresses and strains of life drain a couple's sexual intimacy. But how much sex is enough? A recent study found once a week is enough. This study is discussed in the following article found on WebMD. Once-a-Week...

14 Oct Sex Addiction: Diagnosable and Treatable

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In the following article that I wrote for Rehabs.com, I discuss the phenomenon of sexual addiction and sexual compulsivity: “I don’t know how it got this far out of control,” Matt practically whispered during our first session. “It all started so innocently. I went on Ashley Madison...

06 Jan Toxic Relationships: Recognizing Key Signs

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What is a toxic relationship? A toxic relationship is any relationship we have with another person that makes us feel drained, anxious or less then. Instead of building us up and making us feel good about ourselves, these relationships break us down in subtle and not...

29 Dec The DSM-5: Update to Changes

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The DSM-5 is the main tool clinicians- and insurance companies- use to code mental health conditions. It's also a highly controversial scientific manual for in addition to codifying mental health issues, it often stigmatizes the people who are diagnosed. On December 1, 2012, the American Psychiatric...

04 Oct Divorce Step Family Style: Dr. Hokemeyer quoted in New York Times

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In today's Style section of the New York Times, Elissa Gootman penned a great article on how to negotiate relationships with step children in a divorce. I'm honored that she closed the article on a positive, up beat note that contained my discussion of how...

08 Aug 50 Shades of Grey: What Men Can Get From Reading It

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This posting by Dr. Paul Hokemeyer first appeared on the Dr. Oz website By Paul Hokemeyer, PhD, JD I just finished reading 50 Shades of Grey. For most of you, the book needs no introduction. It’s a hot and steamy novel that’s been a topic of...

13 Jul Internet Addiction

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Dr. Hokemeyer discusses the concept of an addictive personality in relation to internet addiction A real high for some high-tech users [Reading Eagle, Pa.] By Dan Kelly, Reading Eagle, Pa. McClatchy-Tribune Information Services July 12--If you drink alcohol or take drugs, it stands to reason that they will...

03 Jun 50 Shades of Grey

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Is 'Fifty Shades' poorly written? Who really cares? "I think that women are giving other women permission to read it and get in touch with their sexuality," says Dr. Paul Hokemeyer, a marriage and family therapist who is a frequent guest on The Dr. Oz Show....